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#SleepyPhilosophy - 2. Void Wednesday 9 March 2016 | 0 comment[s] How do people deal with the emptiness inside them? Alright. I have some friends who I'd like to write this post for. Mr. E.K and Mr. D who doesn't blog anymore and just left his own blog quite dead. First of all when we lose something we have this emptiness inside of us - something that used to be filled with whatever that we lost. May it be love, trust or respect. It's mainly love so I'll focus on that in this case. Sure you can do many things to fill up that void. You can go around making girls fall for you left and right, filling up that hole only temporarily only to lose it all over again when you're done playing around. That void inside you just can't be filled up by something that can be easily lost. Things that we place within ourselves are generally things that are genuine and hard to acquire. It's like trying to fix a brick wall with wooden planks. What's the point of doing that if the enemy can easily charge straight through? I won't say that time won't heal it but it will close it only just a bit. Do you know why? Because during those times you would've gained new experiences, made new memories with friends, discovered new hobbies. All these things that can contribute into closing that gap. Sure you can find other things to temporarily close it but what's the point if it reopens again? That's the problem with temporary solutions. They only last for so long whereas memories and experiences are things that are usually kept for a long time (unless you forget easily then I can't help you with that sadly). Now, what's the point of trying to fill that gap inside of you if what you're doing is only making it hurt even more? There's no point. You're just doubling your pain. All I can say is stop because the love you want isn't just there. You'll need to accept it and move on. It'll be hard like hell (it always will be) but that strengthens your heart. There's honestly no point in doing whatever you're doing to fill up that abyss if it's just causing more pain 'cause it'll also affect not only your mental state but also your physical state. The pain makes us not want to eat. It'll make our body weaker. Although the brain and body says "yes, we need this" the heart says no because whenever you're in pain it's generally the heart that takes the brute of it. All I can really say is to find things to not temporarily fill the WHOLE void up but things that will permanently close it - just by a slither is fine. And if it hurts then stop. There's no point in hurting you even more. It'll hurt now but gradually over time you will make it as "there's always light at the end of the tunnel". |
